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Response to Newtown Tragedy

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As a parent, I cannot imagine a deeper sorrow than losing a child.

It is unfathomable that almost five months since the loss of life in Aurora, CO, our nation is mourning a mass killing spree horror again.

I speak of the school shooting 30 miles north of my home, in Newtown CT, which is officially the 2nd worst school shooting in our nation’s history. Here on the East Coast, the terrible burden has been even greater, because we are not yet recovered from Superstorm Sandy.

But what has made the heartbreak even more unbearable is that there are human beings that are either inappropriately responding to, or reporting on, this tragedy. I am referring to the NY Times email blast headline that awaited me in my inbox this weekend:

Children Were All Shot Multiple Times With a Semiautomatic, Officials Say

Why is that a necessary or appropriate headline? It is hard enough to discuss this newest, horrific chapter in our history with my two children (whom I have not wanted out of my sight since it happened) without having to worry that they will see a headline like this. Earlier, after escaping from my intermittent tears with a peaceful afternoon movie, I took them to Starbucks. I sent them to find seats so they did not have a chance to accidentally bump into the stand with NY Times prominently displaying this garish headline.

I know it’s news – and a topic that will not soon be forgotten. My personal coping mechanism has been to mostly avoid reading the newspapers or watching the news. Nonetheless, news travels and through a friend I learned that one of the teachers who lost her life was the daughter of town residents. And one of the deceased children was the young cousin of a colleague.

But even if you didn’t know any of the victim’s families, you’d be hard pressed to find anyone not affected by this monstrous demonstration of evil in our midst. You’d have to be inhuman not to have been affected . . . or so I wish to believe. It is hard for me to fathom why one the most well respected news outlets of our age, the esteemed Grey Lady, deemed it appropriate to print such a gruesome, detailed headline.

Adding insult to that injury, is what I witnessed on the streets of NYC yesterday; swarms of Millennials clad in sundry Santa garb caroused the streets of Manhattan in celebration of Drunk Santa Day. Have you heard of it?

What started by a Danish activist theatre group gathering in 1978 is supposed to be a well meaning “non-denominational… and non-sensical” mass gathering (think flash mob without the dancing and the addition of alcohol).

However, at some point, it morphed into an organized pub crawl along a specific route to avoid, or at least cut down on, potential public disturbances and the breaking of urination laws. Oh yes, that well represents the meaning of Christ’s birth.

I’m not a Bah-humbug type in the slightest, but it seems to me that in light of an incident that took place only 24 hours before, a modicum of respect would be in order. Sadly, my mindset was not shared by the milling throngs dressed scantily, irreverently and haphazardly who took to the city streets for one purpose and one purpose only – to get totally, unapologetically trashed and to stay that way for as many hours as possible.

The event began at 10am on Pier 84 and continued from 7:30pm at Santa’s “after-party” at Drigg’s Avenue.

As I write this, a live memorial service, featuring our President, is taking place in Newtown, CT. Truthfully, I am finding it very hard not to be judgmental about the exploitation on one hand of some of the media, and the ignorance of the drunk Santa’s on the other. We lost 20 children and 6 teachers. We lost a mother whose gun enthusiasm created the opportunity for her 20 year old’s son inexplicable rampage.

I am struggling just a bit to understand where I fit as a spiritual being having, once again, a painful, human experience. Maybe that’s the point. Perhaps this insanity is meant to create a more compassionate sanity in the world. After all, is there a greater catalyst for transformation, change and healing than pain?

As the Festival of Lights is ending, the Winter Solstice is approaching, a miracle birth is about to be celebrated, and the Mayan calendar is ending, I am reaching for meaning, comfort and understanding. Whatever your purpose or politics, whether you seek to rally against the NRA or want to arrange and attend ecumenical prayer services, I pray that there is a coming together, a shift for us all to a better place, a happier time and a more sustainable future for us all.

May the light of the souls who we lost in Newtown, CT forever be a beacon allowing us to push our way through this temporary darkness. May we always remember the principal, guidance counselor and young, beautiful teachers who gave their lives defending those children.

May we always remember the children. Those brave, innocent, young, precious, loved, cherished, babies, who have left this life offering us the chance to feel compassion, love and benevolence when every fiber of our being is crying out in rage, fury and disbelief.

So it is the children who, once again, are our greatest teachers. And our greatest gift.
Let light, love and wisdom follow them where ever they are.

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11 Responses to Response to Newtown Tragedy
  1. Tracey Pagan
    December 17, 2012 | 5:10 am

    I couldn’t agree more. Well said.

    • Diva-Mama
      December 17, 2012 | 6:46 am

      Thank you, Tracey. I know we are both grateful for the blessing of community at this very difficult time.

  2. Maria
    December 17, 2012 | 6:29 am

    Shira, your post captures the thoughts of many of us, who haven’t been able to find the words. Thank You!

    • Diva-Mama
      December 17, 2012 | 6:48 am

      Thank you, Maria. And I loved the beautiful poem that you just shared on your blog.

  3. Maureen Jacobson
    December 17, 2012 | 3:17 pm

    I was away on vacation when this tragedy occurred and was told of it by a Canadian that we had become friends with. He couldn’t recall the name of the town. My mother is a school nurse in Stonington, C; my younger sister’s children attend school in New London, T; my best friend’s only child in Shelton, CT and a good friend’s two autistic children in Newtown. To say panic is putting it mildly. The temporary unknowing threw me back to when I was waiting to hear from my husband during 9/11. Those horors came flooding back to me. In my rush to get to the lobby computers, I asked Universe where was it in CT, I was told Newtown…and then was horrified to find I was correct. I am glad to report that my friend’s children were not in that school. Just the same, the emotions are hard to hold back and the tears are right on the surface…so raw. My heart goes out to those families. We need to be better to one another. Hug one another, support one another and above all work on loving each other unconditionally.

    • Diva-Mama
      December 17, 2012 | 3:32 pm

      Maureen, thank you for sharing such a powerful story. I’m so sorry for the emotional upheaval it has caused you and your family. May the healing for us all come swift and sure and may the tides of change that will surely result, draw us to a forever more peaceful shore.

  4. Hope Stanger
    December 17, 2012 | 4:46 pm

    Shira,
    This is a most beautifully written piece. Thank you for your words and depth of meaning.
    Hope

    • Diva-Mama
      December 17, 2012 | 5:44 pm

      Hope, I appreciate your kind words & the fact that mine were able to be meaningful to you.

  5. Jennifer
    December 17, 2012 | 9:26 pm

    This is a “must read” blog post. I am passing it on to friends and family. Cheers.

    • Diva-Mama
      December 17, 2012 | 9:42 pm

      Thank you, Jennifer. I am grateful you found the post so resonant and meaningful. Blessings to you and yours.

  6. Jenn Deutsch
    December 20, 2012 | 4:12 pm

    As a teacher with my young special needs students playing with me I had no idea what the news would bring later that day. As a teacher and human being I still am unable to wrap my head around it just like you Shira. Many I wonders going through my head and what would I do as well. I think my friend told me best as she desperately tried to make my tears stop, when she said “Jenn, you would do nothing different than teachers like Ms. Soto and others did for their students.” My friend is right as my present and former students are my children. I too am trying to not expose myself and the young ones to the headlines and news. Shira as always you said it perfectly. I am just wondering when and where does it end. How do we stop this craziness. When will we have gun control. When will violent video games and movies and more stop! When will there be no stigma for those who need help. When will there be acceptance for those who are different. This nation is very sick and has lots of healing to do. I just pray that there is peace on earth and may it begin with me. Hoping all of you will join me and let it start with you too! Take the time to love more and understand.

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